QUALITIES OF A GREAT PARTNER SESSION
1. Decide whether to voice call, FaceTime, Zoom or Skype.
2. Decide how long your session will be.
3. Have an opening question to hear briefly from each Partner: i.e. current condition, something new since you last spoke.
4. Consider using the Convening Wheel flow below.
Using the Convening Wheel in your session: (Note: We'll be practicing The Art of Convening during our 7 weeks together.)
At the Heart of the Matter: To support the deepening of your experience and wisdom emerging during our time together.
Clarifying Intent: through journal keeping
The Invitation: to consider the broad and deep applications of convening.
Setting Context:
These sessions are meant to give you time to share:
1. your reflections on the journaling question(s)
2. your learnings/experiences on the Journey
Creating the Container: A good practice for moving from your "everyday world" into a more intentional container. Get settled 5 minutes prior to the session, finding a quiet place to be. Perhaps light a candle. Have your journal to refer to. Begin to transition.
Hearing All the Voices:
Consider beginning the session by "Stringing the Beads." Simply use the same method we used on the Journey Session.
1. Begin with a [brief] Transition Exercise: (poem, short breathing exercise etc.) take turns leading the exercise.
2. Decide on a question to speak to--such as current condition—and begin.
3. Open by speaking your name and close with "I have spoken" or "I am complete."
[It may seem a bit formal for a one-on-one meeting, however you'll be surprised by the positive effects it will have between you.]
4. After each has spoken, open up for clarifying questions or reflections.
5. Or you may choose to have another round of speaking.
Essential Conversation: You may wish to use the following questions as a conversation starter:
Creation: What new ideas and/or learnings emerge?
Commitment to Action: What is your commitment to integrate your learnings into your work as a Convener?
May your sessions be fun and rewarding!
Thanks to our Allies at the Center for Purposeful Leadership for these guidelines.
1. Decide whether to voice call, FaceTime, Zoom or Skype.
2. Decide how long your session will be.
3. Have an opening question to hear briefly from each Partner: i.e. current condition, something new since you last spoke.
4. Consider using the Convening Wheel flow below.
Using the Convening Wheel in your session: (Note: We'll be practicing The Art of Convening during our 7 weeks together.)
At the Heart of the Matter: To support the deepening of your experience and wisdom emerging during our time together.
Clarifying Intent: through journal keeping
The Invitation: to consider the broad and deep applications of convening.
Setting Context:
These sessions are meant to give you time to share:
1. your reflections on the journaling question(s)
2. your learnings/experiences on the Journey
Creating the Container: A good practice for moving from your "everyday world" into a more intentional container. Get settled 5 minutes prior to the session, finding a quiet place to be. Perhaps light a candle. Have your journal to refer to. Begin to transition.
Hearing All the Voices:
Consider beginning the session by "Stringing the Beads." Simply use the same method we used on the Journey Session.
1. Begin with a [brief] Transition Exercise: (poem, short breathing exercise etc.) take turns leading the exercise.
2. Decide on a question to speak to--such as current condition—and begin.
3. Open by speaking your name and close with "I have spoken" or "I am complete."
[It may seem a bit formal for a one-on-one meeting, however you'll be surprised by the positive effects it will have between you.]
4. After each has spoken, open up for clarifying questions or reflections.
5. Or you may choose to have another round of speaking.
Essential Conversation: You may wish to use the following questions as a conversation starter:
- What are your reflections on the current journaling question(s)?
- What are some of the challenges and/or opportunities you face as we navigate this difficult time?
Creation: What new ideas and/or learnings emerge?
Commitment to Action: What is your commitment to integrate your learnings into your work as a Convener?
May your sessions be fun and rewarding!
Thanks to our Allies at the Center for Purposeful Leadership for these guidelines.